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Adult vs. Child
Where Does Your Preteen Fit?
By Teri Brown
Though the preteen years can be stressful, they can also be rewarding. With patient, empathic, nonjudgmental and communicative parents, this developmental phase can be exciting for everyone. According to Thomas, it is important for parents to allow the preteen to grow at a pace that feels the safest and most comfortable to him or her. This positively builds upon one's self-confidence, self-identity and interactions with others. 
"I feel this phase is quite similar to toddlers who at around 2 and 3 years old feel their own emotional tug between 'I'm walking now, so I want to freely explore my world' and 'Uh oh! I've walked too far away, a
