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Internet Safety

Protect Your Children from the Internet's Seamy Side

By Pamela Dillon

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A Real Threat
Do you think your 8-year-old daughter searching for the latest Barbie doll can't be harmed? Think again. Key in the name "Barbie" in a search engine and you'll find that at least two of the top 20 hits linked are soft-core porn sites. Another check on the word "fashion" will yield even more frightening results. Within the initial top 20 matches, your impressionable young daughter is only a few clicks away from "fashion fetishes" and hard-core pornography.

"Unfortunately, what we're noticing is a downward trend in the first age of exposure to pornography on the Internet from an average of 11 to age 8, says Jack Samad, vice president of Internet safety with the National Coalition for the Protection of Children and Families. "These cyberpunks clone frequently visited sites because they want to desensitize children to the negative effects of pornography." If a parent walks in on a child and finds an inappropriate site on the screen, they shouldn't jump to conclusions. According to Samad, 80 percent of hits on adult sites by children are accidental.

"We are losing the battle rapidly, especially with the advent of broadband communications," says Samard. "Cybersquatters are sending out spam in the form of 30-second promotion videos of X-rated movies." (He added that parents should be on the lookout for .mpeg or .jpeg attachments.) The NCPCF has recently released an interactive Web site for parents, Filter Review, which reviews about 30 companies and gives parents specific recommendations for certain age groups.

What Parents Can Do
Fortunately, 6- to 9-year-olds are at an impressionable age and are more easily guided in safe online habits than older kids. You should avoid barraging them with a long list of do's and don'ts; just discuss the basics with them. The followig is a compilation of recommendations by Brasche, The National Coalition for the Protection of Children and Families, and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. Discuss these rules with your children:

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