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Preteens and MP3 Players
The Good, the Bad and the Noisy By Teri Brown
Most of today's parents understand the MP3 player revolution. Remember the boom boxes of the '80s? Remember how excited everyone was when the Walkman came out? It isn't that much of a stretch to appreciate the fascination our teens are experiencing with the MP3 players. Of course, what teens want and have soon carries over to preteens.
Cathy Shouse of Fairmount, Ind., gave her son an iPod shuffle when he was 11 years old. There are few incidents with it, because Shouse, having heard of problems other parents had, set ground rules. "One of my concerns is that the volume be at an appropriate level," she says. "He seems to understand that setting it too loud is bad for his ears. The issue of taking it to school has come up, too. It's an expensive item for a child who is juggling a lot of new responsibilities with starting junior high."
Another issue that recently came up is song content. "Another iPod rule I'm working on is that I need to screen the songs he puts on there," Shouse says. "For example, I don't think the language in Green Day songs is appropriate and won't let him buy the CD when we go to the store. But since he's finding his own songs and downloading them himself from the Internet for the iPod, I need to discuss his choices."
Another concern is the desensitization to volume. "The mind gets used to a certain volume, and it doesn't seem as loud," he says. "It isn't the ear that needs it louder but the brain that wants it turned up. So a child can be doing damage to their hearing and still be turning up the volume."


