Preteens can be really fussy about what they do, but they are also a lot of fun. The following activities are surefire preteen winners ... most of the time:

• Poker Night. Invest in a real poker set and a good rules book. They can be used over and over again and add a lot to the atmosphere. Make traditional poker food such as sub sandwiches and other finger food. Serve root beer floats. It will be an evening they will never forget and may even become a family tradition.
• Movie Night. Preteens love going to the movies, even with their families. Discount movie theaters abound, so it doesn't have to be a huge bite out of the family budget especially if you avoid the snack counter!
• Laser tag, paintball or airsoft guns. Preteen boys especially love this one! Take a picnic and make a day of it.
• Ice skating or roller skating. Remember to avoid Friday nights for these activities. This is traditionally "teen" time, and your preteens may feel weird about being there with their parents. Saturday and Sundays are generally better family times.