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Expert Q&A
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| By Keath Castelloe Low child and adolescent psychologist | ||
How can I make sure my daughter knows that I am interested in her life?
One simple way to convey your interest is through eye contact. Look directly at your child and be sure to keep your attention entirely on her. We are often easily distracted by things going on around us – other children running through the house, the phone ringing, the television set. Sometimes we are so busy that it may seem more effective to talk as you are doing another task. Try to focus your whole attention on your child instead.
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